When I meet a new student, and I determine his potential in the game and how far he’s likely to go, I look at a number of factors. These factors are pretty on point when determining a students potential success in the game:

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I don’t mean things that were a breeze for him, such as a college degree in Wal*Mart or being in the process of accomplishing something for the first time. I mean has he ever accomplished/completed anything that he actually had to work hard for? Of course this is all relative to age, but if I’m dealing with a 28 year old man that has never worked hard for anything, chances are, he’s going to eventually fall into his habit of laziness and give up on learning the intricacies of the game that require a lot of study and thought.

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Of course there are out of shape guys that are fine with their bodies, but then you also have the out of shape guys that hate what they look like and constantly whine about it. Let’s look at the reality of it, most diets fail, so the chances of him drastically changing his body are slim to none. And even if he did change his body, his mental state would remain the same. Just look at all of the people that use to be fat/ugly, and still have the same mental state as they did when they were fat/ugly and still worry about their image. This is very similar to the person that thinks money is going to make them happy. They get the money they wanted, and within six months, they’re back to the mental state they were in before they got the money (This is a proven fact, by the way). In other words, he is going to constantly whine about his body and think that he isn’t worthy of being with most women. No matter what you teach him, the confidence will never be there.

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The more testosterone a man has, the more competitive he is. And men with low testosterone and are very passive by nature? They aren’t all that competitive. What this means is that they usually want someone to do things for them and hand them what they want. They don’t know how to compete and go after it. The men with a decent amount of testosterone naturally keep going after their goal simply because they see it as a competition that they want to win.

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It’s one thing to be young and shapeable, but it’s another to be old and still be afraid of interacting with people. I’ll take a student with no game that is comfortable around people before a guy that understands game but is very uncomfortable around people any day. It’s very easy to give a guy game to apply to everyday situations and environments he‘s use to, but it’s very difficult to make a guy comfortable with something that he has been afraid of for his entire life.

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Does he shut-up and listen, or is he one of those know it all type of guys? Know it alls have too much pride and go nowhere simply because they aren’t very receptive to receiving advice. Guys that know how to shut-up and listen tend to go far simply because their minds are open and they aren’t absolutely set in their ways. This is why there are so many frustrated angry men on seduction forums; they think they and their chosen guru are absolutely right, everyone else is wrong, and therefore don’t make any progress in the hunt for women.

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